Tell ya what. I have access to a mage, shaman, enchanter, and I am a druid. I could probably get cleric access, I just don't bother. Every time I log the mage on in Athica, I /shout in zone for free summons.
Personally, I gladly log on a bot to buff, summon, etc. Am I gonna do it just because you're /ooc spamming? Nope. Am I gonna do it because you send me a random tell, nope. Am I gonna hop chars for 15 mins to buff the guild? Yeppers. Am I gonna log on a buff bot or tradeskiller for a friend? Yeppers.
Same should go with that as I do with tradeskills. Sorry, most of the server, you get what I decide to put on listsold, unless I know you, or like this week, off work for a few days & tons of time. Then, I'll custom. Why? Because I know you, I like you, I'll spend that extra time for you.
This is not to be a bitch, by any means. It's simply my play time is simply that, my play time. I'm going to do what I want to do, when I want to do it. Guild first. Friends second. Server third.
I remember Live, and sitting in Nexus doing /who enc all to see who might zone in that I could give plat to for KEI. I had friends lists of folks that I could send a random tell to to ask.
SoD is about player interaction, IMHO. If you need buffs THAT damn bad that you can't log char A on, buff with char B, log char A off, log char C on, then uh.. you're entirely too buff dependent, and need more friends.