And as to my statement regarding other DPS classes being able to generate better single target aggro than paladins atm: My monk easily out-aggros any similarly geared/AAed paladin if I don't feign, so monks can definitely generate more single target aggro. Rangers and bards using things like atk debuffs, snares, slows, etc in addition to melee DPS that far exceeds paladin DPS, can likewise generate more single target aggro.
Ohh, you should also note that if you do choose to continue with your paladin:
Expect to get into many fights with SK's about your abilities. Sk's and paladins have been notorious for not seeing things eye to eye, in which both groups will attempt to declare a far superior understanding of both classes, and will mention that the other classes players probably all suffer from the downs.