Oddly, I can almost always get in from the character screen. On an occasion where I don't get in, the dbg.log looks like this:
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00251:net_connect: rdp 0x0ced3ee0 is connecting to 184.107.119.101:7263...
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00252:net_connect: I am connected to 184.107.119.101:7263...
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00253:net_connect: returning 0...
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00254:Connected to 184.107.119.101:7263...
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00255:Sent request to zone for EQPlayer.
This is on windows 7, 64 bit, eqw. Affinity binding doesn't seem to matter, not using eqw seemed worse.
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00251:net_connect: rdp 0x0ced3ee0 is connecting to 184.107.119.101:7263...
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00252:net_connect: I am connected to 184.107.119.101:7263...
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00253:net_connect: returning 0...
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00254:Connected to 184.107.119.101:7263...
[Sun Nov 02 08:01:46 2014]00255:Sent request to zone for EQPlayer.
This is on windows 7, 64 bit, eqw. Affinity binding doesn't seem to matter, not using eqw seemed worse.