Well, a few things.. Monks are NOT good for soloing on WR... You might be able to solo at level 29, but wait until 40. Mobs hit way too hard on WR for a melee class to solo straight melee. Sure, you can kill a mob solo (WITH great gear, and mend up and working), but the downtime is just ridiculous. Past 45-50ish, there is no way you will be able to solo dark blues. Unless 1 kill every.. 20 minutes or so is your idea of good soloing.
If you can't two-box or Dual client (I'll talk about DC later), and you don't want to rely on groups, monk is not the best choice. Your better at picking a group friendly class, or a good solo'er.. Or, you can have the best of both worlds and make an Enc. I'd say make a Cleric, Enc, Bard, or Wiz... 4 classes this server needs more of... Just pick a class that you will stick with, whatever it is.. except beastlord.
Karm... if you spent the time you spend here, in-game leveling.. You would be close to 60. I think the biggest annoyance is that you respond to just about every post/question with your answer... Using general common sense answers, that usually help no one, are not constructive, or provide incorrect info (think socializing pick lock). I mean, you even went as far as making a poll and bringing up the topic of the exp debt.. A level 29 hasn't even touched the tip of the life of exp debt (and you were lower level then). Exp debt to a lvl 29 is considerably different than the exp debt to a lvl 60. The point is, that no matter how many posts you do have, your level determines your status on WR (until the higher levels). You can have 6000 posts, but still be considered a newbie due to your low level, because no one that is considerably higher level than you will listen to or trust your advice about in-game issues on WR (and in-game issues are primarily what this board is for). But hey.. most people get enjoyment playing, you get enjoyment posting.. Do what you will, but have fun. I'm just letting you know why some people in the high-end game give you trouble.
As far as Dual Clienting goes.. My computer is flat out pathetic. 1.2ghz, 254ram, cable internet.. And I can dual client.. But, I have to be in a dungeon type zone, that is for the most part uncrowded. And, it takes a while to get both clients up and running. That being said, with your computer being twice as fast as mine, as long as you have a good connection, you should be able to DC fine using EQW. I'd lower all the visuals, the most important one is turn 3d sky off.